Christmas Traditions

Traditions are a funny thing. All of a sudden the kids are 11 and 9 years old and traditions are more than just the things I think we should do. They are now little things that the kids recall year to year that mean more than the “big stuff.”

I consider seeing Santa and getting our annual picture taken a tradition. For the kids it’s going to Unos after the picture that they remember. The visits to the Enchanted Village, seeing Christmas lights, making cookies and decorating are all traditions and things we try to do each year. But it’s when we decorate the tree and have to watch Christmas Eve on Sesame Street that always makes me smile.  It’s from 1978- Elmo isn’t even on it! But we did it years ago, so it matters. New Christmas pajamas matter. Writing a letter to Santa and then reading Santa’s response Christmas morning matters. And of course the Church on Christmas Eve, dinner upstairs, breakfast up the street and opening gifts. They love the ornaments- each year getting a new one (or two or three) and remembering the stories of ornaments from years past.

And of course our Christmas card. It’s own tradition.

I love this time of year and can’t believe how many holidays we have celebrated as a family. Some traditions we were intentional about starting. But the ones that seem to be remembered- the little ones, the important ones- are the ones the kids remember and cherish. And hearing about those are the ones I love.

A Christmas ornament for 2016

Chris and I have found the hardest part of parenting is having to talk about what is going on in the world. We do our best to stick to the facts but do share why we feel the way we do about issues in the world. There have been a number of difficult conversations this year.

One conversation that was especially difficult happened the day of the Orlando massacre at the Pulse Nightclub.

It was Pride weekend in Boston. Our family has marched in previous parades, and had it not been for Bren’s rehearsal, we would have again this year. Bre was looking forward to watching the Tony Awards that Sunday night and Aidan- though not as interested in theater- wanted to see the Hamilton performance. It forced us to talk about what had just happened so that hearing the news on television would not be for the first time. There were tears and hugs and questions about how something like this could happen and why there are people who hate other people in the world. When Lin-Manuel Miranda spoke his “love is love is love” words, our kids heard it loud and clear. And we hugged them both with tears in our eyes.

And of course the other difficult conversation was the morning after the election.

One Christmas tradition we have is to ask the kids to choose a picture that represents the year for them. We make an ornament of the picture for our Christmas tree. While choosing an ornament on Personalization Mall, our Bren came across the “Love is Love” ornament- a rainbow on one side and a place for the year’s picture on the other. That’s the ornament he chose this year.

Every year the kids choose a favorite picture from the year and we put it on a Christmas ornament. When I was ordering this year’s Brendan saw there was an option for a picture on one side and “Love is love” on the other side. He decided that’s the one he wanted.

Perfect choice for 2016.
PS The picture he chose for the other side is him in his Marilyn Monroe costume.

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Love Big. Live Big. Celebrate Big.
O’Brien Family Christmas Card 2016

The idea of a fun Christmas card started in 2012 and every year we have spent a considerable amount of time thinking of how to top the previous year (see past cards linked below).  Our planning starts in the summer and becomes part of regular dinner conversations, though it sometimes feels like the discussions are year round.  There were a few options that came up this year- the ones not chosen I won’t share, they get added to next year’s list! Since the last two years were movie themes, this year we wanted something different.

I first came across the general idea of using big two foot tall heads not long after the Orlando Nightclub Massacre. I liked coupling the big heads with the idea of “Love Big, Live Big.” 2016 has been a difficult year – from Syria to natural disasters to gun violence and everything in between, we could certainly use more love in the world.

We took the pictures for the big heads in October and ordered them. They were, ironically, delivered on Election Day.

The campaign was hard.
Election Night was hard.
And right now looking to the future seems hard.

But we need to remember to spend more time loving and living. And when we have the opportunity, we need to celebrate- celebrate holidays, friendships, family, life, love.

Two favorite quotes from 2016 also inspired this card – “Love is love is love is love” and “Live in the light” – messages very important in 2016 and as we look to the future.

We share this card with friends and family to let them know we love them, are thinking of them and wish them the best during the holiday season. We hope 2017 brings happiness and peace.

We hope you enjoy our 2016 O’Brien Family Christmas Card as much as we had fun making it!

Past Fun Cards:

2015- Home Alone

2014- A Christmas Story

2013- Stringing Up the Lights

2012- Deck the Halls

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Big Heads: www.fathead.com
Inside Picture: www.irisheyesphotography.com
Printing: www.shutterfly.com
Special thanks to my mom for taking the big head pictures!