Since the day after the election, we have all been trying to figure out what we do next. It was a divisive election. So much of the progress made over the last eight years has now been called into question.

We’ve had a lot of family conversations. Together we recently watched a fantastic episode of blackish. The kids have had questions. World events have led to discussions about history, politics and family values. All good, but often hard discussions.

It’s not often that we have the opportunity to take what we talk about- especially the principles we hold so dearly- and put action to our words. Today- January 21st- we were able to do that at Boston’s Women’s March.

Brendan and I attended with friends. Brendan made his own sign and chose what he wanted to wear. His support for the LGBTQ community was demonstrated with his Pride T shirt and rainbow skirt. He chose hot pink for his hair in support of women (and added silver sparkles of course). He stood out, as he always does.

We walked to Boston Common- a place we visit often. There were so many people and so many great signs. I think no matter how much I explained it to Brendan in advance, it was still overwhelming for him to see for himself.

We stood for a long time listening to great speeches from Mayor Walsh, Senator Warren and Attorney General Healy. All inspiring. All made me proud to be from Boston. All gave a reason for Bren to ask questions and understand better how privileged we are to live in Massachusetts.

At one point Senator Warren said she would be speaking of something controversial- that “science is real.” I had to explain to Brendan that there are people who do not agree on facts like global warming. All he could do was shake his head.

In the end, the number of people and Brendan’s show rehearsal meant we missed out on the actually marching part but the solidarity of being at the rally and seeing everyone made it’s impression.

Some people left their signs and created a collection. We brought ours home. It’s hanging on our bulletin board as a reminder. This was just the beginning. Seeing all the marches all over the country and world was inspiring. Showing Brendan the pictures all he could say was, “I’m part of that!” Yes, we are.

It was an incredible day we will not forget. Proud to live in Boston. Proud of Massachusetts.