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IMG_8653Brendan loved being on stage in Stuart Little. We didn’t think it was possible for him to be any more smitten by being on stage, but he was. In talking to his new friends he learned that there was a way to audition for other shows and begged us to let him. The StageSource auditions are an opportunity to sing and perform a short monologue for upwards of 50 local theater companies. They keep notes, resumes and head shots and if something to comes up that an actor may be a fit for, they are in touch.

So we learned about what should go on a resume, contacted a friend to do head shots (thank you Kerry and Irish Eyes Photography!) and solicited advice for how to choose. We also found a couple of ways for Brendan to practice (thank you Ms. Shannon!). Brendan’s slot was, ironically, the same day as his speech at the Giving Voice fundraiser.

He was the only kid in his group. Nervous adults (a lot of college age students too) practiced and warmed up.  He sat with an iPad, dangling his feet (and new pink high tops). He confidently went with his group when called. From the Green Room I heard applause when he sang and laughter when he finished his monologue. Others in the Green Room commented they were happy to not go after him. The girl who did said it was the hardest audition she ever had.  Then we left and got ready for Giving Voice.

The next day I got an email from the SpeakEasy Stage Company. I had heard of them-great things- as the resident theater at the Boston Center for the Arts. The email said they were looking for a young boy for a fall show. The script included “sensitive material” and they wanted us to read it first before deciding if Bren should audition.

IMG_0417Chris and I read it. We couldn’t put it down. We immediately decided that not only could Bren audition, but regardless of whether he got the part, it was a show we wanted to see.

appropriate was written by a young African American playwright- Brandon Jacob-Jenkins. It won the 2014 Obie Award.

“After the death of their patriarch, the estranged members of the Lafayette clan gather at their crumbling Arkansas plantation home to mourn his loss and settle his estate.  While sifting through a lifetime of memories and junk, they make a gruesome discovery that forces them to confront their family’s dark past.  Playwright Branden Jacobs-Jenkins (Neighbors, An Octoroon) offers his own subversive take on a classic American genre for a bold new look at race and identity.”

The play involved conversations about race and the ugliness of the past. In a pivotal scene Brendan would come down the stairs in the midst of an epic family physical fight in a white hood.  I saw the play 5 times, Chris 4 and we cried each time.

IMG_0521There were three weeks of rehearsals and then 29 performances over the course of a month. There were long tech week nights (the first week of school!!) and two show days. But it was so worth it to Brendan and to us.

The cast was incredible. The crew was incredible. We were told by Bevin, the director, that she only worked with nice people.  It could not have been more true. They brought experience as well as humor to the show. Brendan grew so much in his love for theater, his appreciation for telling a story and really an understanding of all the things that go into a big show.  He also grew in his independence.  We would drop him off with Jessie and pick him up as his schedule called for.  We didn’t see the show until Opening Night. We couldn’t be more thankful to everyone for everything about this show.

It was a heavy show, but it was kept fun backstage. We appreciated the pictures and stories we heard from others. Above all we heard that Brendan was “professional.” He knew when it was time to have fun but also when it was time to work, take a note or be aware of his cues.  We credit all this to Boston Children’s Theatre.

To everyone who came to the show or sent well wishes- thank you.  It has been a crazy and exciting couple of months, but wow was it worth it.

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It’s October! Halloween is coming!

IMG_7869We have entered October and are about to celebrate Aidan’s 11th Halloween and Brendan’s 9th Halloween. I say celebrate because this holiday ranks up there with Christmas as a high holy day. It has evolved into more than just a night of trick or treating. It has taken on a life of its own, so much so that there are “rules.” Your family doesn’t have rules? Here are ours…

  1. Discussions about costumes do not begin until August 1st. The boys would plan all year if they could. Once August comes we start talking about ideas. No purchases are made until September to be sure we are set and we don’t want to hear in November “you know what we should be next year?”
  2. The theme rule: the boys think there needs to be theme and they find a way to make it work; Thing 1 and Thing 2, Cop and Robber, Ghostbuster and Stay Puff Marshmallow Man and last year’s Marty McFly and Doc Brown. All ideas revolve around this principle. They also try to stay away from what is popular. Their goal: think of things no one else would think of.
  3. No heals for Trick or Treating. You think you don’t need this rule with boys. You apparently don’t live with an 8 year old drama kid with more costumes than a small theater. He is a fan of princesses and has tried to work in wearing heels in past years.  The ER is not a place I want to Trick or Treat on Halloween. For this reason we have a no heals rule. 
  4. Which brings us to the different costume for the school party rule. This is where Brendan has dressed up as Merida or Elphaba from Wicked. Heels, dress and makeup. No theme is necessary for the party and it must be remembered that dancing makes kids hot.
  5. That brings us to the “we live in the northeast” rule. It could snow or be 80 degrees on Halloween night-both have happened. Planning a costume that can be layered is a must. Kids do not like costumes ruined by a fleece jacket but an extra layer under the costume is negotiable.
  6. And finally Aidan’s candy rule: when we finish Trick or Treating all candy must be grouped by type, counted and charted rule. He’s done this since preschool. Perhaps a little Type A. He also gets annoyed when we steal pieces during the process.

IMG_2332It’s almost like after a decade we have this down to a science. As kids Chris and I were never as into this holiday as our kids but we have come to appreciate their creativity and the fun we all have with planning. They are only young once and certainly have some great memories of this holiday.

This year’s costumes will not disappoint! Here is a link to all the costumes!