Going to India last year was the experience of a life time. Â It was incredible and all of us gain so much from going.
The first full day we were there was the Sangeet party. Â It was a celebration before the wedding. Â Two men came and each of the women had a chance to have beautiful henna designs drawn on our hands. Â It expanded to several of the American men. Â Both boys were fascinated by the designs and tradition. Â It was offered for each to have designs drawn on their hands and both refused. Â After one of the older boys decided to take a turn, Brendan changed his mind but Aidan didn’t. Â Finally Aidan came around, but it was too late. Â The men had left.
Aidan was disappointed, Bren was glad he said yes. Â We had a conversation that night about how experiences and opportunities are sometimes once in a lifetime and how when offered, you need to be willing to try something and step out of your comfort zone. Â It was reinforced throughout the trip by all who commented on Bren’s henna and asked Aidan where his was. Â For all the experiences in India, when either would be wary (riding a camel, horse and elephant, dancing in the wedding procession, meeting new people), we would simply say “this is like the henna….”. Â It would make them think and say yes.
And that has continued often throughout the year. Â Simply mentioning “this is like the henna” puts things into perspective. Â What a lesson to learn at such a young age. Â One they will keep with them for sure.